12.Repeat fos class voluntarily in order to continue to receive alimony.

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babyoil

Hello, I am a father of 5 children. The big one is finished with the education. The big daughter has the 12.passed FOS, but the grades are very bad. This is why she wants the 12.Repeat FOS voluntarily, which is also allowed by the school. Your desired place of study has NC, therefore you are not accepted to study. She rejects another place of study, resp. Refers to the expired registration period. The KM does not work, She has (not from me) a disabled child. Since I earn relatively much, I pay despite the 3 smaller children ca. 300,00 € to the big daughter.

Question: Do I have to accept a voluntary lap of honor?

The post was edited 1 time, last by babyol ( Aug 14th 2008, 9:06pm ).

Wolfgang Becker

Hello B., first of all welcome to the ISUV forums.

Please explain your shortcuts.

Have a look at the forum header of "Internal", there we have explained the common abbreviations. Please do not invent new ones.

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baby oil

babbedeckel

I knew what FOS is, and I was on one myself
. no matter
In my opinion you have to accept this, because your child is already allowed to orientate itself. Look at it positively, after all she/he wants to get ahead.
With bad grades, the chances are just worse .
Does she want to study . then you have to keep paying anyway.

baby oil

Hello,
i bought the ISUV leaflet 22. A really worthwhile purchase! On page 6 there is something about a park study. Among other things, it says that parents are not obligated under child support law to finance park studies that are not related to professional goals.

The question is now, is a voluntary repetition equivalent to a park study and can therefore the maintenance at least be suspended?

It is clear, if the daughter studies, I also pay. I would have no problem with it. But dawdling should not be supported .

babbedeckel

Is clear that dawdling should not be supported. I guess, as I said I suspect, here no judge will decide against it.
But maybe. others here have a different starting point.
I would -in your place- make it unmistakably clear to daughter that you do not support it. Do you have a title. if not, then stop payment . then daughter would have to sue.

Have you already asked them about it ?

Wolfgang Becker

Hello babyol, I think this is one of the things that should not be settled legally but amicably among each other.

In court judges would make a consideration. This would then also the previous (school) career daughter illuminated + evaluated.
What could come out of it, no one can know from here. But many judges like to give young people a chance.

And here it goes nevertheless around with better notes a better vocational chance to have. And not what you claim in your title.
The "permission I consider the school’s "assessment of teachers that this can succeed", that they see a good chance for it.

I think you should come to an agreement with your daughter, also concerning the planned studies. That she also takes on duties that make a speedy completion probable.

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baby oil

Many thanks for your tips. Yes, there is a perpetual title for the amount to be paid. However, this title (at least at the moment) can no longer be found. Neither the child’s mother, nor the daughter, nor the Jugendamt can find this document. The payment I have stopped without this knowledge but already before August 2008.

At the moment I tend (also after your info) to let it come to a court date. Do you have any idea what kind of court and lawyer costs I have to expect??

The post was edited 2 times, last by babyol ( Aug 15th 2008, 5:16pm ).

Wolfgang Becker

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baby oil

Hello,
after almost a month of consideration, my daughter, she will be 20 years in Nov 2008 and lives with the mother, has now taken a lawyer, which sent me an offer.

From Oct 2008, I should 300 € until the end of the repeated 12. Pay class in July 2009. Afterwards it would have to be recalculated. In July/August she had a vacation job and earned her own income. She waives additional payment for this.

My data: I earn adjusted approx. 3000 € per month. Alimony I have paid in July 09 last (317 €).
From second marriage, my spouse does not work, I have three children who live with us. My little daughter will be 6 years old in January 2009, the son is 9 years old and the daughter 15 years old.

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