Self-love is the key to change in your life.
If you don’t love yourself as you are, you will always doubt yourself. You will always think, did I do it right?. What could I have done differently and and and…
People who love themselves also radiate this. They are self-confident and mostly successful.
I have found that it took me a long time to love myself, with all my faults and quirks, which we all have.
I have come to understand that this is what makes up our personality and shapes our life in a certain way.Today you will learn the 7 golden rules for more self-love in your life.
There is no such thing as the perfect person, but each person is unique in themselves. No one to compare it to.
Keep in mind that you are the most valuable thing of all and how to keep that, I’ll tell you now.
1. learn to say no
You have probably heard this before, but this is also a step towards self-love. You have to learn to say "no", to just think about yourself, to have more time for yourself. Even if it is difficult for you, because your environment is not used to it, you can afford it now. You don’t have to scrub overtime when the youth can do it too. You don’t have to take on additional tasks if your schedule doesn’t allow it. You don’t have to arrange your free time according to others and you don’t have to be available all the time. Just think what it will be like if you strip away some things and say "no" now. How much relaxation would that bring into your life. A life which from now on is focused on me and my needs.
Would that still be great and how much joy would it bring me.
2. Get rid of your perfectionism
Perfection is a trait that will not lead you to self-love. Because you will never be perfect, because you will never be satisfied with yourself. People who are perfectionists live under enormous pressure all the time .You tinker with a task until everything is perfect. But being imperfect is the key to success. No matter if coaches or people you meet in the course of your life, the natural people remain more in your memory.I myself learn more and more from my imperfections, so that I progress faster and I also admit to myself that I am not perfect. I also believe that you will be much better received by others if you keep your own imperfection.So you should make it your business to get into implementation rather than live perfectionism again and again.
3. Admit mistakes to yourself and learn to appreciate the small successes.
By admitting mistakes to yourself, you forgive yourself. You should also appreciate small successes and be happy about what you have achieved. If you can’t do that, then you will never be satisfied with yourself. You will always doubt yourself and put pressure on yourself. Then most mistakes happen and the frustration against yourself is always greater. I know the feeling well, especially at the beginning of my self-employment this played a very decisive role.
Today I live differently, I have become more content and appreciate my own actions because I have learned to love myself.
Success in what you do is important, but it does not come overnight. Believing in yourself and what you are and embody is something you should never lose sight of.
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4. Get the help you need for yourself
To go the way you want to go, get help. You do not have to do it alone, but join like-minded people. People who share what is your own need. You will find out that there are so many people who swim on your wavelength and who at the same time give you the feeling that you are doing everything right. Have the courage and do something for yourself . Learn, educate yourself and invest and go your own way. Do not try to teach yourself everything, because that will only slow you down. You would have to find every piece of the puzzle alone and could lose the thread. So give yourself knowledge and let professionals help you. Do not make it dependent on money, because you will certainly not get everything for free.
5. Trust in yourself and your abilities
If you start to trust yourself, then you have already made a big step towards self-love.Discovering your own abilities and realizing what you are actually capable of will bring you so much joy that you won’t be able to get enough of it. This was the case for me when I took my first steps into online business. I have been so pleased with myself that I have been working on my goals with even more vigor every day.I myself was not aware at the beginning that I have evolved rapidly. Even today I trust in myself. I know what I can do and
I do everything to reach my goal.
6. Put yourself in the focus and still remain a bit yourself
Self-love does not mean showing off and being egoistic. No, it’s simply that you should focus on yourself and your needs now to make the most of the time you have left. It should be clear to you that you are no longer 20 with u50 and you have already developed in all the years to a person who can not simply discard old behavior patterns. Therefore you should always keep your own personality. What makes you special and what distinguishes you from others. Do not bend for others, always remain yourself. It will be that some will like you and some will not like you. It doesn’t matter, because the ones who like you are exactly the ones you are talking to.
7. Keep in mind " the way is the goal" and do not deviate
Make sure that you have a goal and that you always stay on the path. This is very important, because the Internet is full of distractions of all kinds. A course here, a challenge there and nothing really brings you forward.A structure and the essential is important to not lose the red thread. Also you should keep in mind the order and emphasize the importance of it. But this is another topic and has nothing to do with self-love.
Maybe you could take away one or two things from my article. If it helps you find yourself and your place in life, I would feel happy. Because self-love is also a step to being happy. That is what we strive for and what we are looking for.
Do you love yourself? Have you also experienced? I would be very happy about a comment.