You have met this sweet girl and now you feel a strong tingling in your belly. Of course you want to kiss her soon to get closer to her and to show her how much you like her. Maybe it’s even your first kiss ever on a date, and you don’t really know how to go about it. Don’t panic – insecurity and nervousness are completely normal in the beginning.
In this article I would like to give you a guide with a few important tips on how to make your first kiss successful and enjoy the physical closeness. And who knows, maybe this is the beginning of your great love?
Every man is afraid of his first kiss on a date
Help, the first kiss! I could tell some stories about this from my life… These magical touches of the lips have already caused fear and despair in me as a teenager. Especially when I had butterflies in my stomach and the woman meant a lot to me. So I know exactly how you feel now.
However, based on my experience, I can reassure you: Everything is half as wild in the end, when it comes to the physical contact from mouth to mouth. Still, as a man, many questions naturally buzz through your mind:
- Do I have any chance at all with her?
- How can I tell as a boy if she wants to kiss me??
- When and where to kiss her for the first time?
- What to do when she blocks the first kiss?
These questions alone can make one quite uneasy. So everything nicely in order! If you read my instructions in this article carefully to the end and have understood all the tips, you are certainly already a lot smarter.
Where should the first kiss take place?
Many men do not know where and how to kiss women. Everything is easier than we guys think. First you should contact her and make a date. But where is the right place for the first kiss?
In general: Suitable are all places where you can get closer and touch each other undisturbed. It is best to choose a romantic and cozy place where complete relaxation is possible. Because if you both feel comfortable, you can help the love most likely on the jump – who can already use stress?
Possibilities for such a date are many. How about for example the park bench in the forest? Or a meeting at the lake with picnic? Of course you can do something more action-packed first before you go to quieter corners to get closer to each other. Suggestions pleasing? Here you will find a wide range of date ideas.
The first kiss on a date: when is the perfect moment?
You asked her out on a date and she said yes. Now you are together on the road, talk great and have a really nice time. Now you would like to get closer to her and wonder when is the best opportunity for the first kiss.
Should you even kiss on the first date, or rather wait until the second or third meeting?? And what is the best time for a kiss when you meet?
The most important thing: do not follow a rigid scheme, but always adjust your pace individually according to the girl! Here are 3 tips on what exactly you need to consider:
1. See what type of woman she is
One thing is clear: every man is different, so is every woman. Some will invite you to kiss with hidden signs, while others will wait more silently for your approach. But that doesn’t mean that you have to kiss wildly – even though it is well known that the proof of the pudding is in the eating. Look first what kind of girl you have in front of you. How do you rate her – is she open or rather shy??
By the way: This is how you conquer her on a date!
You want to finally get the meeting with the woman of your dreams and conquer her WITHOUT getting a rejection? Then you have to stick to one crucial rule!
But the shocking thing is: 97% of men have no idea how to set up a romantic date and get physically closer to the woman until the lasting affair or relationship.
That’s why these guys end up in the friendzone as a "good buddy" or don’t even get a response when texting anymore.
If you want to get your beloved quickly on the date and seduce..
…then click now on the "Play Button" and benefit from my knowledge in this short video!
2. Watch out for her flirting signals and signs
There are also signals by which you can tell if a woman is ready for the kiss. But keep in mind: Unfortunately, not every woman is such an "open book" from which you can read out everything. Some are extremely reserved, hoping that you will recognize the right moment and give her a passionate kiss.
Just watch out for the following signs when you meet:
- She comes closer to you and touches you.
- She invites you directly or indirectly to a kiss.
- She licks her lips with her tongue.
- If you approach her face, she will not avoid you.
Even if the lady is very reserved: as a man you always have to make the first step and be the driving force on the way to the relationship. Women expect something like that from you!
3. Flirt more intensely if she holds back a lot
Of course, if there are no flirting signals at all, it may be that there is no sizzle between you. Instead of having a hot flirt or being in love, she may be bored and not in the mood for tenderness. Luckily you can change that. You can learn a few useful tips about this here: How to flirt properly.
My secret tip: prepare her for the first kiss
If you’re on a date with her, there are many ways to prepare your lady of the heart for the kiss. I recommend you to touch them gently at first. During the conversation, briefly touch her shoulder or hip, for example – but rather casually, so that she only notices it subconsciously.
When she gets into this, you can gradually increase the touches. The sense of it all? She can gradually get used to your physical closeness and does not feel surprised when you kiss her. If the big moment has come, you can use one of the following sayings to lead up to the kiss.
Example no. 1: The playful and humorous accusation of
You: So Katharina, stop looking at me all the time as if you want to kiss me! (with a charming smile)
Example no. 2 – The charming direct type
You: Oh man, I can’t concentrate right now, I don’t know what you’re doing to me, but I’d love to kiss you right now!
Here are two more tips: I advise you to try such sayings only if you really want to kiss the woman. After all, you want to be honest with her and not make yourself untrustworthy, right?? Also, look deeply into her eyes when you speak, because that way the effect can be even stronger.
She has blocked the kiss attempt, what now?
Maybe the first kiss didn’t work out and she turned her head away or said it was going too fast for her. She does not want to meet me? You may ask yourself. Here again it is important to keep the neves. Respect her behavior and just try kissing her again later on.
She blocked the kiss again? Then accept her decision. Not every woman can be conquered by storm, but needs several dates. And sometimes it doesn’t work out with love, because maybe you are not made for each other. There are many other great girls out there who are waiting for a boy just like you and want a relationship with you.
Tip: change the place if she feels uncomfortable
However, if you feel that she wants to kiss you but is just blocked by something, question the whole scenario. Maybe the situation is just unfavorable? At a disco, for example, her ex-boyfriend may be around and she doesn’t want to be seen with another guy.
The best way to avoid such pitfalls is to go with her to another place. Maybe you will find a place where your first kiss will not attract curious looks. Then nothing stands in the way of your intimate approach for the first kiss.
The absolute no go’s during the first kiss
A classic mistake is to take your beloved by surprise. Some guys go from 0 to 100 in 3.6 seconds. But a woman is not a Ferrari, so you should approach the matter with more feeling. So approach at a slower pace and pay attention to when the next step is called for.
Although I hope I don’t have to emphasize this: Please avoid bad breath. If in doubt, you can always take some chewing gum or peppermint candies with you. To take care of your teeth regularly is probably also self-evident. The same is true for the lips. Yes, even men can use a lipstick for grooming! By taking care of her, the first kiss will not only be more pleasant for the girl, but you will also show her that you care about yourself.
If you follow all the tips and my instructions, the first kiss will be perfect. Of course, kissing properly is also a matter of practice – but you can practice extensively with her soon if she is in love and wants to start a relationship with you. I wish you a lot of fun and hope that you come so the love a big step closer!
These tips are not all..
Want to set up the date in WhatsApp now and get closer to the woman – from kiss to affair or relationship?