Addressing men: how to approach him?

I’ve been smiling at him for minutes, but somehow he doesn’t notice me.

And if he just leaves now, I may never see him again.

But what will he think when I take the first step?.

And if at all: How do I approach him??

Should I just walk right over or should it happen casually??

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And exactly at this point the 2 most important questions come into play: Where and Like When I approach a strange man?

This article will help you answer these questions and show you how you should approach men and thus get closer to them.

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But let’s start with the question of the place:

The perfect place

Basically, you can approach a man you like anywhere.

Whether you first see him in the supermarket, at the bus stop, at the fitness center, on the open road, at the bar, at the club, or at a private party is irrelevant – There are no wrong places to meet him!

There are only a few situations where it is more difficult: For example, if the man is under stress or time pressure.

Therefore, the places where he has enough time and may even be a little bored are optimal: The train, in the park or on the campus of a university.

In this article you will find 17 more places where you could meet a man.

If you are looking for something casual, use places that people use to get away from it all, switch off and even meet new people: big parties with lots of strangers, weddings or New Year’s Eve parties.

But this doesn’t mean that you can’t meet someone for a serious relationship at such places – even a one night stand can turn into something more!

Should not rather HE make the first move

In most cases, smiling at a man is usually enough to signal to him that he can approach you.

However, if he is a little shy, or just doesn’t pick up on your signals, it’s perfectly fine for you to make the first move!

There are an incredible number of ways to do this, but you should always keep 3 things in mind:

  • Be self-confident
  • Stay relaxed
  • Be in a good mood

Even if you are nervous at that moment, don’t let it show. The first contact with strange men should be the most normal thing in the world for you. It should happen casually.

If you are too nervous and hesitant, don’t let him watch you! After he notices you, you have a few seconds left before your waiting seems unattractive.

The longer you wait, the greater your fear of rejection will be – so take heart!

Approach men: How to approach HIM?

If you come along all of a sudden and just say "Hi", it might overwhelm some (especially shy) men and they will take flight…

However, the simple "Hi" is again very effective and also appropriate at parties, clubs or bars. There the mood is usually so relaxed that a man is even happy when he is addressed by a woman ;-)

Otherwise in everyday life: Always open the conversation according to the situation!
Pay attention to your surroundings. If you are in the supermarket and looking for a food, ask him for advice. If you are in a furniture store, for whatever reason, ask him to get a certain piece of furniture off the shelf for you.

Start the conversation calmly with a touch of irony. Charm and humor are always helpful to break the ice.

An extremely important point is also: Do not give him all your attention at once.

Give the conversation a friendly, but somewhat casual character. Only when he makes a friendly impression and responds to the conversation, you can calmly give him more attention.

This will give him the feeling that your conversation "just happened". But of course you have started the interaction and made the first step ;-)

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A tip for somewhat shy women: It is perfectly okay to ask even very banal things: "What time is it right now??" or , "Can you tell me when the bus to XY is coming…".

The right way

Basically it is much more important how you say something, than what you say. Have fun in the conversation and make sure you have a positive aura. It is the overall impression that counts!

You can prepare some casual conversation topics beforehand, so you don’t have to fall silent after one or two sentences. To do this, look at him a little closer to find topics: If he looks athletic, he may go to a gym.

If he makes an educated impression, he may be studying.

Of course, it’s still better if you react spontaneously and the conversation flows on its own. You can train this by always getting in touch with strangers, you will be more successful every time and feel more comfortable with every new person you meet.

But the absolutely most important thing is: Don’t let failures drag you down! It’s not the end of the world if there’s ever a basket.

There are plenty of men out there for you to practice on. The more experience you gain, the better.

As always, all beginnings are difficult, but believe me, at some point you will even enjoy it and you will be happy about the interesting new contacts you have made.

The very first contact always remains a tingling moment – your heart will always pound like crazy. These are the moments that make life worth living and get you out of the daily grind. Enjoy it!


There is no one perfect place to approach men. An interesting man can meet you anywhere and if you like him, talk to him, if he does not do so. If he is under a lot of stress and has no time, don’t do it.

Pay attention to the situation around you and use it charmingly. You can start with a touch of irony if you stay relaxed, confident and in a good mood!

As I said, the important thing is the overall impression!

And write it behind the ears: Failure is not the end of the world!

Every approach, every contact and every conversation makes you more experienced, more secure and more confident. Take advantage of this and just dare!

My question to you:

What do you think about the woman making the first move?

Let me do it in the Comments know.

Let’s follow the search for Mr. Right finally put an end to it!

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