The goals that society sets for us are often the ones that we accept. And later we may realize that they are not our own at all. But you came into this world to be yourself, don’t get distracted!
Whether it’s out of fear, shyness, bias or even laziness, there are times when we conform to what other people create for us. We forget the most important thing. No one can create you, shape you or adapt you to your reality better than yourself.
Don’t be afraid of what the world thinks of you
Our personality is shaped by the experiences we gain. That’s why the views other people have of us sometimes affect us to a point that is no longer healthy, that we are not even aware of. So it’s good to be clear about who you are and defend your tastes, opinions and thoughts.
Being yourself is fundamental to discovering and developing yourself as a human being. It’s normal to be afraid when we see that we’re different from others. But isn’t it also true that each of us has certain characteristics that everyone else would classify as "weird"? And isn’t it also true that it is exactly these strange features that make us unique?
To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t have to be accepted by others. You have to be accepted by yourself.
Thich Nhat Hanh
But that’s not to say that it’s bad to listen to the advice of the people who love us now and then. Cause they’re always looking out for the best for us. And above all, they accept our personality, even if sometimes they don’t understand it.
Open your heart to yourself and show your feelings. This can make everything easier.
People love you because you are yourself
Sometimes it can take a while before you accept yourself. It’s especially difficult when we feel we’re being rejected, whether it’s because of the color of our skin, sexual orientation, or even our goals. That’s basically not a problem if you take the time to be yourself. Because first of all you have to be sure of who you are. And if one thing is true, it is that those who love us will accept us unconditionally. Even though they may need a little time to do it, just like ourselves.
In the end it all comes down to the happiness we achieve. And In fact, our happiness is greater when we put on fewer masks. So it is good to show ourselves in a relaxed way. Let’s avoid trying to be someone we are not.
If you believe in yourself, then you can take risks, enjoy, be admired or experiment with that which revels in the human spirit.
Being yourself means discovering your own magic, and those who love you will enjoy watching you find happiness. Show your innermost being and let it shine. Your environment will reflect this light. Love yourself and you will find the place where you belong.
Get rid of distractions: love yourself for who you are
Being yourself is the main reason that you are there, that you are alive. Enjoying, loving and making the most of every minute should be our main goals. Try to get as much as possible out of your feelings to discover yourself. This is the greatest gift you can give yourself. And not just for you, but for everyone who needs you.
The one who accepts his flaws and contradictions is lovable, especially if he manages to love himself for that very reason. The one who looks through all the dimensions and grows as a consequence of the differences he finds in himself is courageous. Therefore do not be distracted. Don’t listen to anyone who maliciously doesn’t believe in you. Do not give up and do not look for yourself where you cannot be found.
By being yourself you bring something wonderful into the world that wasn’t there before.
Discover yourself and when you think you’re ready, show your true essence to everyone else. Honest fruits are the sweetest and the ones that will never be forgotten. With their own special beauty and flaws. Your fellow men will thank you and so will you.